Love, friendship, and the self: intimacy, identification, and the social nature of persons

Bennett Helm presents a reexamination of our common understanding of ourselves as persons in light of the phenomena of love and friendship. He argues thatthe individualism that is implicit in that understanding cannot be sustained if we are to understand the kind of distinctively personal intimacy that love and friendship essentially involve. Recent Western thought has consistently emphasized the individualistic strand in our understanding of persons at the expense of the social strand. Thus, it is generally thought that persons are self-determining and autonomous, where these are understood to be capacities we exercise most fully on our own, apart from others, whose influence on us tends to undermine that autonomy. Love, Friendship, and the Self argues that we must reject a strongly individualistic conceptionof persons if we are to make sense of significant interpersonal relationshipsand the importance they can have in our lives. It presents a new account of love as intimate identification and of friendship as a kind of plural agency, in each case grounding and analyzing these notions in terms of interpersonalemotions. At the center of this account is an analysis of how our emotional connectedness with others is essential to our very capacities for autonomy and self-determination: we are rational and autonomous only because of and throughour inherently social nature. By focusing on the role that relationships of love and friendship have both in the initial formation of our selves and in theon-going development and maturation of adult persons, Helm significantly alters our understanding of personsand the kind of psychology we persons have as moral and social beings. ...detailed and compelling arguments...a convincing and engaging account of love tied to conceptions of personhood and the morally good life. INDICE: Introduction Part I Caring Agency, Emotions, and the Problem of Import Caring about Others Part II Loving Values: Loving Oneself Love As Intimate Identification Justification and Non-Fungibility of Love Part III Friendshipand the Self Paternalistic Love and External Reasons Friends Are Other SelvesPostscript Bibliography Index

• ISBN: 978-0-19-964256-4
• Editorial: Oxford University
• Encuadernacion: Rústica
• Páginas: 334
• Fecha Publicación: 05/01/2012
• Nº Volúmenes: 1
• Idioma: Inglés